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The UK: Still a religious country (#Pray4Muamba)

Carl Laferton | 26 Mar 2012

Richard Dawkins must be turning on his soapbox.

There’s been a lot of praying going on—and a lot of people telling other people to pray—since Fabrice Muamba collapsed on the White Hart Lane pitch nine days ago.

Other players prayed on the pitch. Twitter was alive with prayer requests from celebrities such as Wayne Rooney. “Pray 4 Muamba” T-shirts sprung up everywhere. And all this before Muamba’s family had requested prayer.

And wonderfully, God seems graciously to have chosen to save this man’s life. Though his heart stopped for 78 minutes, he is now talking and moving—and was able to watch Bolton’s 2-1 win on Saturday (they may yet avoid relegation—see, miracles do happen!)

So what do we make of all this? Two things, perhaps:

1. Britain is still a religious country.

When the chips are down, people pray. And people preach prayers to others, too. Wayne Rooney may be a surprising preacher, but that’s what he was doing—telling others to act in a certain way to the Almighty. Despite the best efforts of active secularists and militant atheists, prayer is still our default action when confronted with the shocking reality of a broken world where 21-year-olds nearly die (and, sometimes, do die).

2. Britain is NOT a Christian country.

Let’s not kid ourselves. These were not prayers offered in faith to a Father who was being trusted to act for the good of His children and supremely for His own glory. Nowhere in the celebrity/sporting twittersphere did I spot a prayer which began “Lord, if it is your will” and ended “for the glory and in the name of your Son”. These prayers were offered to an unknown god, a genie in a bottle. A kindly deity who we can ignore every day except the day we need him, and who we can then whistle up, tell what we need, get it, and carry on as before. That’s not who God is. He would be no more or less God if He had decided that Muamba had come to the end of his life (as he will, one day—just as we all will).

And there are prayers which God won’t answer—prayers which come from a heart which has the wrong attitude, to which God says: “Even if they call to the Most High, he will by no means exalt them” (Hosea 11 v 7). God saving Muamba isn't the result of the prayers of people who treat the Creator of everything as though He were a God who can be taken off the shelf, dusted down, given His orders and then returned. It may be the result of the prayers of His children, who know who He is, who seek to treat Him as God, and who ask for His forgiveness through His Son when they fail to. And it certainly is because He is a gracious God, who gives us every breath we enjoy as a gift, whether we recognize that or not.

  • Ultimately, the difference between pagan folk religion and real Christianity—between twitter-prayer and real-prayer—is about what we pray for, and why we think we’ll be heard.
  • Do we pray first and foremost for what we want, or for Jesus to be praised?
  • Do we pray because we think prayer works, or because we trust that God works?
  • Do we pray because we think prayer is an offering—we’re doing something for God, so He’ll do something for us? Or because we know prayer is speaking to our heavenly Father—we can do nothing for Him, but Jesus has done everything we need to be able to enter His heavenly throne room as His children?
  • Perhaps here’s the crunch: do we pray because we need something, or because we simply love our Father?

So the reaction to Muamba’s heart attack—and let’s give thanks to our Father that He has mercifully saved his mortal life—is at once heartening, and disheartening.

Britain still believes in something. But most of us have no idea who He is.

   

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The fire alarm

Tim Thornborough | 26 Mar 2012

Church packed. Songs sung. Prayers said. Notices read.

There was a calm and silent atmosphere as people sat in quite reflection. But then the peace was shattered by the insistent shrill wailing of a fire siren. As the deafening racket continued, an announcement came over the PA system:

"There is a dangerous fire in the building. You must calmly get up out of your seats now, and leave the building."

The siren continued to wail for a time, but eventually it stopped, and the worshippers sat in their rows looking nervously around at each other. Eventually, they began to talk:

"Wasn't the sound of the siren interesting!" said one woman.
"Yes", replied another, "Once you got used to it, it was really quite lovely."
"I though the announcement was very clear and helpful", said a man.
"I've made some great notes that have got all the main points down" said another.
"I didn't find it that interesting - no funny stories or jokes at all" said a sullen teenager.

The excited buzz of conversation continued as the smoke slowly filled the room…

Q: How do we know when people have truly heard the fire alarm?
A: When the building is empty.

Q: How do we know when people have truly heard a sermon?
A: suggestions below please...

Based on an illustration heard from Mike Cain at the Planting for Christ Conference last week.

Fighting the Monday feeling

Martin Cole | 26 Mar 2012

Sing to the LORD a new song,
for he has done marvelous things;
his right hand and his holy arm
have worked salvation for him.
The LORD has made his salvation known
and revealed his righteousness to the nations.
He has remembered his love
and his faithfulness to the house of Israel;
all the ends of the earth have seen
the salvation of our God.

Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth,
burst into jubilant song with music;
make music to the LORD with the harp,
with the harp and the sound of singing,
with trumpets and the blast of the ram’s horn—
shout for joy before the LORD, the King.

Let the sea resound, and everything in it,
the world, and all who live in it.
Let the rivers clap their hands,
let the mountains sing together for joy;
let them sing before the LORD,
for he comes to judge the earth.
He will judge the world in righteousness
and the peoples with equity.

Psalm 98

If we begin to grasp the incredible way God has rescued us, so that one day we’ll join all creation in His perfect world, praising Him… if we just begin to appreciate who God is and what He’s done for us… then we’ll want to sing and shout His praises. And we’ll sing in the way this psalm tells us to: loudly, with joy and jubilation.

   

Fighting the Monday Feeling

How to stop being boring

Helen Thorne | 24 Mar 2012

So you've done the prep. The main point is clear in your mind. The structure is sketched out. And your application thought-through. All that remains is to put the pieces together, write the talk and deliver it.

You're faithfully explaining the word of God so you're confident that it's going to be relevant and transformational. In the hands of the Holy Spirit, there's no doubt that it can be used to glorify God. But there's still a nagging suspicion that the talk that you end up with might be, well, how can I put this? Just a little bit dull...

If that scenario sounds familiar, why not spend an hour today listening to Pete Woodcock's seminar on how to stop being boring.

As an experienced speaker, Pete shares his top tips for passing on God's truth in ways that engage and enthuse. Originally given at the Bible-centred youthworker conference, there are hints here for anyone who has to teach Jesus from the front of church. If you listen, your talks may never be the same again ...

Loving the Leaver

Helen Thorne | 23 Mar 2012

A week ago one female blogger in the states posted her 15 reasons why she left her church. I don’t know her. I don’t know her church. I’m not going to assess her decision. What has been intriguing, however, is the comments that have followed. Nearly 800 responses, many of which have been profoundly caustic. Some, down-right unkind.

It might be that some of the blogger’s assessments of her church feel very alien to other members. If her comments were unfair, it is right that they are challenged. Her understanding of Scripture may well need some discussion. But having said that, I’m saddened that the responses haven’t been spoken humbly and in love.

I could rant about the dangers of quick-fire blogging and commenting that can all too often reflect “heat of the moment” emotion much more than “godly wisdom”. I could wax lyrical about postmodern culture (or just the nature of fallen humanity) that has the tendency to be self-seeking rather than other-serving. But I probably shouldn’t. It’s very easy to criticize what’s happening “out there”. It’s far more important to turn a thoughtful eye to our own hearts. So instead I’ll pose the question: how do we – you and I respond when someone leaves church? Do we display a balanced attitude of truth and love that unswervingly seeks the good of the precious sheep leaving the fold?

Or to put it more practically, here’s a challenge for the weekend (one that I am posing from a position of weakness not strength). Think of someone who has left church, someone who stays home on Sunday these days. And ask yourself 5 questions:

  • Am I still praying for them?
  • Have I forgiven them for anything hurtful or unfair they’ve said?
  • Have I repented of anything that gave them a bad impression of Christianity?
  • Is there a gentle and wise way I can encourage them to focus afresh on the truths of the gospel?
  • Is there a practical way I can serve them this week?

As Christians we are called to love God and our neighbours (Luke 10:27), love our brothers and sisters in Christ (Hebrews 13:1) and our enemies (Luke 6:27). It’s pretty certain, then, that we’re called to love Church-leavers too … and to do so right now.

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David Berkeley | 23 Mar 2012

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Best Buy Friday

Cross the ball - don't score the goal!

Tim Thornborough | 23 Mar 2012

It’s a familiar scene to anyone who knows football. The soccer player who tries to “go it alone” runs at the defence, takes a wild shot, and completely misses - while his team-mates, completely unmarked, stand by helpless. The furious team coach is yelling from the touchline: “Pass the ball, don’t score the goal!”

One of the most important lessons I learned early on in my unusual career as a home group leader is contained in this pithy potted proverb.

Everybody knows that Discovery is the best kind of education. I will always learn something more thoroughly if I’m put in the position where I discover it for myself, rather than if someone just tells me. But it's remarkable how many of us fail to work it out in practice.... continue reading

   

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Christianity in the News

Phil Grout | 22 Mar 2012

The vicar spreading the word, one tweet at a time

Secularists using Christianity as 'surrogate' for Islamic radicals, says bullish Rowan Williams

Church of England schools to be "rebranded"

More Americans say too much religion in politics

Missionaries try to bring Christianity back to Britain on BBC tonight

Jeremy Clarkson's blasphemy is just 'everyday language', says BBC

   

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Home groups: watch the watch!

Tim Thornborough | 22 Mar 2012

The study is flowing, the conversation is sharp, funny and moving by turn.

Someone raises an interesting question that everyone wants to comment on. Someone shares a deeply moving need that everyone wants to pray for.

You look at your watch, and it's 10.45.

"Whoa!" you cry, "time these little piggies were all tucked up in bed for the night." Some members shoot out of their seats and head straight for the door. Others linger in the hallway talking by the open door. You stifle a yawn, close the door and switch on the TV to wind down before you go to bed. The light doesn't go off until 12.45.

Sound familiar?... continue reading

   

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Respectable Sins: Confronting the sins we tolerate

Richard John | 21 Mar 2012

“Respectable what? Respectable sins?” exclaims the worried-looking customer on our church bookstall, which I run. It’s fun to watch their bemused reaction when they spot this book!

As the sub-title indicates, Respectable Sins is about tackling the sins we tolerate - the ‘subtle’ sins which, as Jerry points out, we in reality consider ‘refined’ or ‘acceptable’. What honest Christian doesn’t sometimes convince himself a certain sin is ‘OK’?

Jerry has had a long, valuable ministry among students and in the community, and what he writes is relevant to all Christians. He is one of my favourite authors and his books have stood the test of time. His first book, ‘The Pursuit of Holiness” (1978), has sold over one million copies. You are always spiritually the better for reading one of his books.

In the first five chapters, Jerry looks at how the concept of sin is disappearing, it’s awful power, the remedy for sin, and the Holy Spirit’s power to combat it. There is then a helpful chapter with guidance on dealing with specific sins, followed by the core of the book, fourteen chapters examining in turn individual sins that we tend to consider ‘acceptable’. Finally, there is a practical chapter - Where do we go from here?

The core chapters cover some of the more obvious ‘respectable’ sins - e.g. pride, selfishness and anger, but also sins that we often rationalize as ‘OK’ - e.g. frustration, envy, lack of self-control, irritability and ingratitude. The style is easy to read, but the content is challenging and thought-provoking. I found that every single core chapter exposed my hidden sinfulness and made me wince. There is a great balance between the ‘negative’ and the ‘positive’. Assured that God no longer counts our sin against us, and extremely thankful for that, as Jerry says, ‘This twofold effect of encouragement and gratitude together produces in us a desire to deal with our sin’.

Respectable Sins is a book that can be used in many ways. I have recommended it at church; our Ladies’ Reading Group are currently reading it together and using it one-to one; and it could also form the basis for a sermon series, midweek prayer meetings and home group studies.

If we are serious about seeking to be more Christlike personally and towards others, then this book’s wise, biblical, practical and positive teaching is an excellent aid. It’s a book that you won’t regret reading.

Richard John,
Bookstall manager, Selhurst Evangelical Church (FIEC), S.E.London
   

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