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Looking for a new church?

Helen Thorne | 26 Aug 2011

So you’re moving house. Off to college or uni. The time has come to join a new church family. You’ve been on the ‘net and printed out a list of congregations and got some recommendations from trusted friends. But what next? Once you’re in a strange church building how do you discern whether it will be a good place to settle?

Here are eight quick questions to help:

  1. Is the teaching faithful?
    Join a congregation where the leaders and preachers are keen to explain the whole of God’s word carefully and relevantly. (Acts 20:27)

  2. Are the prayers missional?
    It’s a great sign if the intercessions display a real heart for people outside the church. (Col 1:6)

  3. Are the hymns biblical?
    Try to find a congregation where the songs used reflect Scripture not just sentiment. (Eph 5:19-20)

  4. Is the ethos pastoral?
    Listen out for stories of how the church has been supportive. We all struggle and you’ll benefit from being in a community where you can be encouraged and spurred on in your walk with Christ. (Heb 10:24)

  5. Is there training available?
    Everyone needs to grow in knowledge and understanding and have their gifts developed. Check that there are opportunities to do that through small groups, 1:1s or training courses. (Phil 1:9)

  6. Is the notice-sheet practical?
    Join a church where there will be opportunities for service. The notice-sheet is a great place to see what’s going on and to work out how you might get involved.(1Pet 4:10)

  7. Are the people approachable?
    Look to see if the congregation are welcoming. It’s always a good sign when people show love. (1Jn 3:11)

  8. Are the services accessible?
    Make sure you would feel able to bring your non-Christian friends along. (Col 4:5)

Of course, there’s no such thing as a perfect local church and it is unrealistic to expect that every congregation will do everything well. But if you answer most of the above with a ‘yes’ then the church is definitely one to visit again!

Teaching Children and Teens Together

Helen Thorne | 24 Aug 2011

My church is small. In our under-18s work we have 6 children aged 1 to 14. One has special needs. And with our current resources we have no choice but to teach them together. It’s not an uncommon scenario. Many churches do it. And if you’re in one of them you’ll know how frustrating it is not to be able to teach in age-specific groups and how hard it is to help groups like this grow.

We tend to fall into some common traps:

  • gearing everything to the younger ones so they don’t scream
  • making the teens into leaders before they’re ready
  • rotating activities for the older ones with activities with for the younger, irritating everyone in turn!

But on our good days, we remember that there are better ways to teach multi-age groups. And here are 4 tips to help us:

  • Pray – John 14:26 reminds us that the best teacher is the Holy Spirit. And so asking God to open the eyes of the children by his Spirit – bringing them to faith and deepening their faith – is the top strategy for growth. Praying for more children and leaders is good too!
  • Use multi-layer activities – A single activity can work on a number of levels. Teens can read a Bible passage verse by verse, while children act it out and leaders explain it. The previous week’s teaching can be reinforced with quizzes that have blue questions (hard) and red questions (easy) all chosen by tiny children picking coloured balls. We can make collages of prayer-needs that involve simple pictures and complex prose. The aim is to involve everyone in every activity in ways that are age-appropriate.
  • Encourage peer interaction – Bible study and prayer work well in twos with each pair having carefully crafted age-specific questions and prayer pointers. Leaders can help the younger ones while giving the older ones 5/10 minutes on their own (in the same room) before everyone feeds back to the whole group.
  • Initiate midweek 1:1s – It may be necessary to teach together on Sundays but Tuesdays are far more flexible! Once a fortnight pop round to see each of the older children for an hour in their own homes – enjoy getting to know them, opening the Scriptures with them and watching them grow!

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Fighting the Monday feeling

Martin Cole | 22 Aug 2011

You who bring good tidings to Zion,
go up on a high mountain.
You who bring good tidings to Jerusalem,
lift up your voice with a shout,
lift it up, do not be afraid;
say to the towns of Judah,
“Here is your God!”
See, the Sovereign LORD comes with power,
and his arm rules for him.
See, his reward is with him,
and his recompense accompanies him.
He tends his flock like a shepherd:
He gathers the lambs in his arms
and carries them close to his heart;
he gently leads those that have young.

(Isaiah 40 v 9–11)

The good news must be shouted out! The Lord Jesus will come with the power of a mighty warrior and with the care of a shepherd looking after his sheep. Just as God would rescue the people of Jerusalem from exile in foreign countries — Jesus rescues His people from God’s punishment and brings them home to Himself. Amazing.

   

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5 Top Tips for Being a Welcoming Church

Helen Thorne | 18 Aug 2011

We all want our churches to be places where people feel at home. But in the busy-ness of the average Sunday morning it’s all too easy to let newcomers wander in and out without any meaningful interaction taking place. So here are our top 5 tips to help you welcome visitors to your congregation:

  • People who are primed
    When you walk into a new church there’s nothing worse than being ignored! It’s great to have people on the door greeting visitors with a smile. And it’s even better to have others who give out books and show people to their seats. But what’s really needed is an ethos of welcome ... a whole congregation primed to look out for new people and willing to put aside conversations with their friends to go and be with those who are looking lost.
  • Priorities that are gospel-centred
    While it is very convenient to be able to sort out rotas and agendas after the morning service, it’s more important to be showing the love of God to others. People trump paperwork! So be willing to put off the bureaucracy until Monday and focus on having encouraging conversations ... maybe even invite visitors to lunch.
  • Packs that are clear
    It’s useful to be able to put a welcome pack into a visitor’s hand – something that will help them get a feel for who’s who and what the church is all about. So why not buy some plastic wallets and in them place: a welcome letter from the church leadership; details of the next evangelistic course and social event; a response card on which people can request further information and maybe something fun like a bar of chocolate?
  • Posters that help people navigate
    Churches, especially larger ones, can be complete rabbit warrens. So make sure each room is well signposted so visitors don’t get lost!
  • Pop-round ethos
    Once someone has taken the huge step of coming to your church, do make the effort to contact them. Whether it’s a hand-written note through their door, an email or a visit, make sure they know that you enjoyed having them with you and would love to see them again.
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    Post-camp blues

    Tom Beard | 16 Aug 2011

    As the summer camp season draws to a close for another year, I imagine there's a number of people out there who might be suffering from the return to normality after serving on a camp.

    A number of us here at The Good Book Company are involved in a variety of camps across the country and it's always exciting to see people come back from camp fired up and really excited, but then that rapidly gives way to a slight sadness and despondency as the normal routine of life replaces the constant, dizzying thrills of camp.

    Here's a very helpful article to guide us through the Post-Camp Blues and to focus on how great God has been to us.

    Horrible Bosses

    Helen Thorne | 15 Aug 2011

    Irrational bosses can be the bane of our lives: Their demands, unrealistic and their attitudes, abhorrent. Those of us who have to endure them all too often go home from work seething or depressed and, to our shame, end up indulging in a spot of revenge-fantasy. So it’s no surprise that the latest Hollywood offering, Horrible Bosses has found a certain resonance with many. Extreme it may be but there’s something deeply appealing about its basic plot: wreaking revenge on those who make 9-6 an utter nightmare!

    Now, before I go on, it would be wise to emphasise that my current bosses are absolutely wonderful! But many of us don’t have that privilege. So how should Christians respond when we find ourselves working for horrible bosses?

    According to 1 Peter 2:13-25, by respecting them!

    Peter wasn’t being a first century sadist. Rather he was someone who saw beyond the daily grind of the working week to the most important calling of any believer – the calling to be like Christ.

    He reasons that suffering for doing wrong is getting what we deserve. Suffering at work when we don’t deserve it – and enduring that suffering in ways that are mindful of Jesus, with no hint of retaliation – is something that both displays and develops godliness.

    That is not to say that we should be doormats. We have more freedom than many 1st century servants and so if something in our workplace is seriously awry then it is right we use that freedom help solve those problems. But always in a framework of respect … never out of a desire to see our boss “get what they deserve”.

    Respecting an unreasonable boss is not an easy path. There will certainly be days when we need the prayerful support and encouragement of wise friends … But we are followers of a saviour who took the most difficult path. Becoming like him was never going to be easy!

    Fighting the Monday feeling

    Martin Cole | 15 Aug 2011

    Those who trust in the LORD are like Mount Zion,
    which cannot be shaken but endures forever.
    As the mountains surround Jerusalem,
    so the LORD surrounds his people
    both now and forevermore.

    (Psalm 125 v 1–2)

       

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    Looting: a response

    Tom Beard | 11 Aug 2011

    A great, biblical response to the looting from Mike Ovey of Oak Hill College.

    But the liberal and the diehard both seem to see the looters as profoundly other, patronisingly in the one case, demonisingly in the other. The thought is that the looters are not like us.

    http://oakhill.ac.uk/commentary/11_summer/looters_them_or_us.html

       

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