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Swipe Up

A better way to do love, sex and relationships

By Jason Roach, foreword by Glynn Harrison
3.666666666666666666666666667 stars  from 3 reviews
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About this book

In a sex-saturated culture where anything goes, it’s tempting to think that the Christian vision for sex seems dull, uninspiring and just plain weird!

Join author Jason Roach as he reflects on how he discovered a different way of looking at sex, relationships and love. He found the true intimacy he was craving in God’s perfect design for sex and sexuality—and shares how you can too.

Discover a better story than the one our culture tells, a story where respect, generosity and care for others abound and relationships can flourish. Trade insecurity for confidence, anxiety for freedom and stress for happiness as you enjoy who God has made you to ...

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Specifications

Contributors:
Jason Roach, Glynn Harrison
ISBN:
9781784983703
Format:
Paperback
First published:
October 2019
Dimensions:
129mm x 198mm x 7.1mm
Weight:
0.11 kg
Language:
English
Pages:
96
Publisher:
The Good Book Company

Contents

Foreword: by Glynn Harrison
Introduction: why I am telling my story
1. Something more
Or My Girlfriend was a pole dancer
2. Here for a reason
Or how Shaving has never been quite the same again
3. Celebrating our situation
Or Why singleness is not second best
4. Faithful
Or Why anniversaries matter more than wedding days
5. Friendship
Or why “the one” isn’t enough
6. Speaking to our world
Or Why “Stop it” just won’t do
Epilogue: Swipe Up.

Endorsements

This week you’ll be gazing at numerous screens that reinforce our culture’s fantasies of love, sex and relationships. Why not give up some of that time to gaze at the reality of God and his better love stories? Reading Jason’s personal and practical book will do you so much more good.

Ed Shaw Pastor of Emmanuel City Centre, Bristol & Co-Founder of www.livingout.org

In a world where our western culture's narrative about sex and relationships so easily steals our minds, this little gem of a book helps us lift our gaze and see a far more beautiful story. Seamlessly weaving together personal experience and biblical truth, Jason Roach reminds us of God's astonishing love and the privilege it is to love others in ways that honour him. It's not a book of "don'ts" but a book that helps us rejoice in our risen Lord. Accessible, practical and wonderfully engaging - a great read for anyone desiring purity, intimacy and joy.

Helen Thorne–Allenson Director of Training and Resources at Biblical Counselling UK

A funny, honest and challenging account of the agonies and ecstasies of relationships. Jason takes us to the dizzying heights of Gods eternal story and ties that’s into the details of our lives – lives of passion, intimacy, sexuality, singleness , friendship and marriage. Big ideas, short chapters – definitely worth reading and passing on!

Gabrielle Samuel London City Mission missioner at Brixton Local Church (BLOC)

I wished I’d had a book like this around when I first became a Christian in my early teens. Jason is so honest, clear and real. He gets who we are and who God is. I love “thanks, sorry, please and never” as a summary of the Bible on sex and the sexual revolution. It’s a great read, and you’ll be reading it again and giving it away to all your friends.

Bishop Keith Sinclair Bishop of Birkenhead

This is a great book written with warmth, wit and honesty. Starting with his own experience and his own heart Jason brilliantly exposes the lies our culture tells us about sex, love and relationships and then winsomely shows us why what God says about these things, is truly good. The final chapter on how we can be better equipped to interact with the watching world on these issues with grace, humility and clarity is hugely helpful and a massive bonus!

Andrea Travenna Author of The Heart of Singleness

Jason helpfully gives us biblical truth and pastoral wisdom, wrapped up in a deeply honest and personal narrative. Rather than confront, he gently persuaded us that God offers a better way of navigating the pitfalls of modern romance and relationships

Matt Fuller Senior Pastor of Christ Church Mayfair, London; author of Reclaiming Masculinity

I’m very thankful for this book and I couldn’t recommend it more highly. Jason is both honest and realistic while also being witty and practical. This is a book for both single and the married people alike, because no matter who we are or where we’re at in life, we all need pointing to God’s better story for our lives and Jason does exactly that.

Rachell Michell Family and youth worker, South London

Relationships. In a world of confusion the Bible's message has never been more needed. Here is a book packed with theological depth and insight written in a wonderfully engaging style. If you are looking for a brief book covering the core issues in relationships, from sexual relationships to singleness, from friendship to marriage and how these can be opportunities for reaching out to our world then this gem of a book covers them all with compassion and biblical insight.

Ian Fry Families pastor and former Director of Youth and Children's Ministry at Oak Hill College

This book is sane, funny, honest, powerful and moving in equal measure. Jason Roach does a marvellous job in presenting the Bible’s beautiful vision for sexuality in our broken world in a way that is utterly realistic and completely recognisable. Both sensitive and courageous, no-one - married or single, Chistian or non-Christian, could read ’Swipe Up' without laughing, rethinking and even shedding a tear. Read it, talk about, pass it on!

Gary Millar Principal, Queensland Theological College, Australia; author of Saving Eutychus

This book is deeply honest, real and human. Jason reflects on his own story through the lens of his faith in Jesus. He opens up a conversation about sex, relationships, intimacy and holiness. It is a conversation that the whole church needs to be having. This book will encourage you and challenge you, and at all times it will point you to Jesus.

Kate Wharton Assistant National Leader for New Wine

Jason Roach must have swallowed a truth pill to write this book! It’s so real about intimacy, loneliness, adolescence, singleness, marriage and friendship. Amidst the searing honesty, he shows us how he discovered an amazing map that enabled and us to stay clear of the storms. It’s a map and a story you’d be mad to miss. I’ll be thoroughly recommending it across the generations at All Souls.

Rico Tice Founder, Christianity Explored Ministries

Here is a gem of a little book explaining why God's blueprint for our sexuality isn't limiting, but is actually liberating. Jason combines personal story with powerful and pastoral application. And because it's  accessible and concise its the kind of book you can buy, read, and pass on.

Martin Salter Grace Community Church Bedford and editor of Foundation

In this age of secular humanist, militant atheist and multifaith environment, Jason, has told his story of finding intimacy in all its forms of meaning through his life experiences and faith. He has very kindly let us in on his vulnerability and humanity. One of the main highlight of this book for me is the open invitation to consider what our society suggests about finding your personal and self gratifying options open to us to find sexual intimacy and fulfilment against the back drop of the concept of belief in the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ who has shown us the ultimate example in language, word and action of true love and sexual intimacy. The God of all flesh who has a purpose for our lives, a purpose we need to discover in His will through Jesus Christ. This book invites us to consider this option as a real way forward to finding true, long lasting fulfilling intimate love, both as Christians and non-Christians in a post-truth world.

The Rt Revd Dr Karowei Dorgu Bishop of Woolwich

This is first and foremost Jason’s story but listening to and learning from testimony is a key part of the Christian life. Yet you will also discover as you lean into Jason’s story that it is your story too. You will find yourself not always in the details of Jason’s life but in the Bible principles he brings to bear. And there you will find deep riches in a brief read.

Adrian Reynolds Head of National Ministries, FIEC UK

Customer Reviews

3.00 stars Worth reading along with the Bible

 

I'm not surprised Glynn Harrison did the forward because this book is basically his "Better Story." Not the most gripping book, and there needs to be a balance of the better story type writing with more on boundaries, as increasingly Christians don't know where the boundaries are. Is that mainly because we don't think Biblically because we don't really read the Bible, and soak it in, letting the Word of God dwell in us richly?

Thanks for this review. You are right to draw the parallel between the two books — Swipe up is a direct development from Glynn’s book, with a very specific and important difference. Glynn’s book is a more intellectual and cultural analysis of our culture’s views on sexuality, and is aimed at mature, thinking Christians. As Glynn’s foreword says, Swipe Up is all the ideas from his book, but packaged in a form that can take those truths and speak to a rising generation of younger Christians who are less mature in their faith, perhaps—and even to those who are not yet Christians. The target market is completely different—as reflected by the length, voice and prevalence of storytelling. Please pray with us that this book will reach a generation that would not read a book of the length and style of A Better Story, but who desperately need to hear the Gospel’s liberating message about sex, sexuality and relationships.
Tim Thornborough, Editor.

3.00 stars Not quite what I was looking for.

 

I was looking for a book to give teenagers but felt this was too 'philosophical' for them. The material is biblically sound and the ideas excellent but it is highly prsonal and it just somehow didn't seem to connect with the sorts of problems I had in mind. I'm sorry I can't be clearer than this..

5.00 stars Honest, compassionate and relevant

 

This wonderful little book gets us to the heart of what it means to be God’s dearly loved children, and how this “better story” helps us to navigate our relationships with others. Jason writes with honesty and compassion and gave me a clearer view of my past, present and future in the light of the glorious gospel of God’s lavish love for us. The story-telling nature of the book is perfect for a story-loving culture in which relationships are all over the place. I highly recommend you read this and then pass it on.

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